So, I was inspired to see Dr. Strange because of this video about the film hiring a finger-tutting YouTuber to choreograph the hand gestures the actors use when casting spells. I thought, how cool - wonder if anyone has thought to combine finger-tutting with actual reiki...

The thing about internalized misogyny is it sure kept a lot of things from hurting. I want to say I'm proud of having woken up to understanding feminist issues, to seeing rape culture everywhere it exists, to seeing events in my past that I had previously...

Confession: Up until fairly recently, I was quite reckless with myself - because I didn't feel particularly accountable to anyone, because I didn't feel that I owed any more work to the world than I had already done, and because I had already been so...

I'm having a really hard time with some of the subtle misogyny appearing on facebook today, much of it from guys I know and like. Here's something that's happening right now: A man who has confessed to committing multiple counts of sexual assault is running for...

Ai is a red herring. We're walking around in the most sophisticated technology ever known (aka our bodies) and filling them with Cheetos. I'm so mad. Legit. We're directing all the energy externally when it needs to go internal. Reliance on tech is a distraction....

On coming out as NOT POLY: I wrote a Facebook post last night on my desire to disassociate myself entirely from the poly orientation, then deleted (well, privatized) it this morning. I was writing from a place of anger and snark, and while there is room for...